Raven Gates, a 27-year-old business owner from Arkansas, and Adam Gottschalk, a 28-year-old commercial real-estate agent in Dallas, are living together almost two years after they met on Bachelor in Paradise season 3.
The former Bachelor contestant shared some intimate details about her fantasy suite night on Kaitlyn Bristowe’s Off the Vine podcast.
“When I was on [‘Bachelor in Paradise’], he would take me into the ocean and say some dirty s**t to me,” she reveals. “We get into the Fantasy Suite and he did the damn thing. That’s when I was pretty damn sure.”
Admitting that they did it on “non surfaces,” and adding that it was “mind-blowing.”
“One thing that I really liked about Adam in the very beginning, like in Paradise, is how he treated my friends,” she tells Kaitlyn. “He was so sweet to them. If they were going through something — like Kristina [Schulman] with the whole Dean [Unglert] situation, he would pull Kristina aside and talk to her, and really be invested.”
“And I asked him one time, ‘How did you become so great with women?’ And he said — I mean, he’s very close with his mom — he said that, at a very young age, he was interested in women. He was so interested in women that he would read magazines, articles, whatever he could — like, Cosmos, to see what made women happy, and how he could relate to their emotions…I’m like, ‘Okay, I don’t even know how I found you.’… I also just think he’s tender-hearted.”